Monday, June 22, 2009
♥ If I Were A Boy
Noo I don't wanna be a boy. I don't think I want an "extra" body part in my body. Then I will have two brains! (which won't make me any smarter) lol
I'm talking about the way the boys deal with their buddies.
I like how they can talk about anything with their friends, and how they can openly frontstab the person without the other guy getting emofied.. *jealous
They can even hit each other and they will be alright the next day or so, after cooling down.
The other day, my guy friends were talking/discussing about some futsal thingy that got them into a misunderstanding. Soon, they look like they were arguing but I think they are just confronting each other to avoid further misunderstanding. And they always manage to talk it out and then joke about it few days later. Why I don't see this kind of confrontation thing with the girls?
Girls tend to hide their feelings when there is something they do not like.
Then talk/gossip about it later with their other friends. We, girls don't even bother to voice out our feelings to our friends and we will just let it be... Maybe girls are more sensitive? They dont like to listen to unkind remarks or comments.
I thought we are all BFFs? Aren't we all supposed to be honest with each other? hmm...
But I'm trying to change that. I want to be as honest as possible, but can the girls take the truth? Later they get all emo, and don't want to be friends with me anymore.... haha I appreciate some honesty from my friends too.
I wouldn't want my friends to lie to me that the skirt looks awesome on me when it looks god damn horrible right.. haha but this is just a small problem. The big problem is when one friend has issues with the other friend. That is when the girls won't talk about it, and it slowly becomes a crisis in girls' world.
MAYBE if we were abit more open and honest like the boys, we will have less misunderstanding and we can get more out of the friendship.
I still love being a girl and I will always love my BFFs (no matter how bitchy they get haha!)
Girls will always be girls.
XOXO!
I'm talking about the way the boys deal with their buddies.
I like how they can talk about anything with their friends, and how they can openly frontstab the person without the other guy getting emofied.. *jealous
They can even hit each other and they will be alright the next day or so, after cooling down.
The other day, my guy friends were talking/discussing about some futsal thingy that got them into a misunderstanding. Soon, they look like they were arguing but I think they are just confronting each other to avoid further misunderstanding. And they always manage to talk it out and then joke about it few days later. Why I don't see this kind of confrontation thing with the girls?
Girls tend to hide their feelings when there is something they do not like.
Then talk/gossip about it later with their other friends. We, girls don't even bother to voice out our feelings to our friends and we will just let it be... Maybe girls are more sensitive? They dont like to listen to unkind remarks or comments.
I thought we are all BFFs? Aren't we all supposed to be honest with each other? hmm...
But I'm trying to change that. I want to be as honest as possible, but can the girls take the truth? Later they get all emo, and don't want to be friends with me anymore.... haha I appreciate some honesty from my friends too.
I wouldn't want my friends to lie to me that the skirt looks awesome on me when it looks god damn horrible right.. haha but this is just a small problem. The big problem is when one friend has issues with the other friend. That is when the girls won't talk about it, and it slowly becomes a crisis in girls' world.
MAYBE if we were abit more open and honest like the boys, we will have less misunderstanding and we can get more out of the friendship.
I still love being a girl and I will always love my BFFs (no matter how bitchy they get haha!)
Girls will always be girls.
XOXO!
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