Wednesday, June 23, 2010
♥ You Shall Be Burn
The more I think about it, the more it pisses me off... Men AND Women who cheats.
I remember right after I started blogging (which was exactly one year ago), I wrote a piece on Why Men Cheat.. When I wrote it, I wrote it with humour. Maybe because I was not very aware of the whole scenario and writing it just to entertain myself because I found some funny pictures with it.
Now, moving to another year, 365 days later, I'm going to write about nearly the same shit but with different feelings towards it. Cheaters should be burned! Tortured and then die cruelly. That's how I feel. And obviously I'm not talking about cheating in exams -.-
Cheating is an act of LYING, DECEPTION, FRAUD, TRICKERY, IMPOSTURE, AND IMPOSITION.
In relationships, couples obviously expect to have sexual monogamy of each other. So why the fuck do you cheat? Too itchy backside nothing to do is it? Cheat doesn't mean you have to be sleeping around but if you lie, it is considered cheating as well.
Been listening to some of my friends' stories that their bf/gf been cheating on them. Yes, even girls now cheat when we used to think only men cheat. So far this year, I've heard like four cheating stories from my friends! At this very moment, one of my friend actually forgive his girlfriend for cheating on him. Sigh. Ok, maybe she deserved a second chance.... I really don't know. Listening to their stories make me want to teach all the cheaters a lesson. Grr. I just hate it when my friends are getting cheated or lied.
Some people just do not appreciate what is there in front of their eyes. When it is right there, they take it for granted. When it's gone, they start to realize their loss and wants to get it back. It's too late man. So why can't you appreciate it when its yours and only yours? Are you that desperate for other women's attention? Does it feed your ego? What and how it made you feel? Did it make you feel like a hero?
Most people cheat because they thought they could get away with it.
Are you sure? I always believe the truth will always come out, although it hurts.
Worse is those men who do all the sweet talking to a woman when she is at her weakest point (after a break up from her ex bf or something). He is therefore taking advantage of you and trying his goddamn luck to get into your pants.
One thing about men is when they have power (successful with lots of money) they would tend to cheat. Examples? John Edward, Bill Clinton, Ashley Cole (who had the HOTTEST WIFE! I even had a girl crush on her!), Tiger Woods.... just to name a few.
So sometimes you wonder.. Why do some smart and successful men would do such risky things? Dr. Sari Locker, a sex educator and psychologist, once said in a TV show that "First of all, they want sex from someone other than their wife. They want what they're not getting at home. Often, it's very specific types of sex that they want. But it's also (that) they think they can get away with it. There's no emotional connection." So sometimes it's not the wife/women's fault but these men who have itchy dicks. Zzz.
To make it simple, they just got bored with Chinese food, and wanted to try something exotic like Mexican food for a change. But you'll know deep down inside his heart, he will always love Chinese food but once in a while he wants to try something new. And at the end of the day, he would never miss the chance of coming home to you for some Chinese food.
To think of it, I think some men cheat because they have a weakness of character. There can be millions of reasons for you to cheat, but I know some men won't because they respect their promises and vows for each other. I, therefore, respect these men and look up to them.
I was reading an article where people were discussing about the interview John Edwards did on ABC's Nightline where he publicly revealed that he had an affair and he wanted to explain about his actions for doing so.
"I grew up as a small town boy in North Carolina. And I came from nothing, worked very hard, dreamed that I'd be able to do something hopeful and helpful to other people with my life. I became a lawyer. Through a lot of work and success, I gained some acclaim as a lawyer. People were telling me, 'Oh you're such a great person, such a great lawyer, such a talent. You're gonna go—there's no telling what you'll do.' And this was when I was 30, 31 years old. Then I went from being a senator— young senator—to being considered for vice president, running for president, being a vice presidential candidate, becoming a national public figure. All of which fed a self-focus, an egotism, a narcissism that leads you to believe that, that you can do whatever you want. You're invincible. And there will be no consequences."
So to paraphrase it.....
"I used to be poor. Then I got rich and important. Then I thought I was so awesome that not only did I deserve to sleep with another woman, I also thought I wouldn't get caught. So I did it."
Such bullshit. I believe if you cheat, you already planned and know you are going to cheat and there is no excuse or reason to cover your backside.
Ok enough anger rantings. I need to breathe now. Needed to get this out of my system.
No xoxo for you cheaters out there! Karma!
p.s//Be strong, you! :) Time will definitely heal everything! Like the saying, there are millions of fishes in the sea. I believe you will find your other half somewhere out in the sea soon.. : D
p.ps//wow let's hope I don't cheat.. hahahaha what an emotional post. lol
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